Many people who are exposed to a cult since childhood grow up believing in certain teachings and traditions simply because they are told they're correct.
Many relationships fail. Some seem destined to crash and burn. And not just burn like a campfire—these breakup storiees explode into absolute annhiliation.
There’s a complex we call “foot-in-mouth” syndrome. These people were on the receiving end of said phenomenon by getting asked these insensitive questions.