6 Tips For Going On A Trip With Someone You Just Started Dating

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Would you go on a trip with someone you just started dating? Most people would likely discourage it, but it’s important to keep in mind that not all relationships move at the same pace. Some simply progress more quickly than others, and for those couples, a trip early on in the relationship is not really a big deal. Besides, it is said that the best way to get to know your partner is by traveling together because, well, that’s when the true colors really start to come out.

It might work out, it might not work out, but that’s not the point—the purpose of an impromptu trip is to keep the fire that you’ve started keep burning, regardless of the outcome. There’s a thrill in experiencing new things together while the relationship itself is still new. Yes, it’s a risk, but that’s part of the excitement. It’s definitely not for everyone, but if you think it’s something you’d be interested in, keep reading for six tips that could help you in your endeavor:

#1 Analyze your gut feeling

What does your gut feeling tell you? Do you feel comfortable with this person? Are you able to be completely yourself with him or her? Does he seem genuine and honest, to the point where you can confirm some of the things he tells you from his public profiles alone? These are all important things to keep in mind.

The moment you have any inkling of doubt or come across a red flag, you should probably hold off on agreeing to a trip. You need to be 100% sure you’ll be okay spending time with this person for an entire weekend or so. It can be extremely fun and rewarding, but you also can’t be too blinded by puppy love.

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#2 Follow the three-night rule

It’s a loose rule, but it makes sense: the common suggestion is that you shouldn’t do anything longer than three nights. A long weekend, therefore, would be the perfect time to set up a trip. Three nights is the sweet spot because it’s long enough for you to really get to know each other, but it’s not too long that you guys start to get antsy.

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#3 Manage your expectations

Always make sure you and your partner are on the same page. Some couples even find it useful to write down a set of ground rules to follow before heading out. Important details like the destination, the proposed activities, the duration of the trip, and so forth are all things you both need to agree on to ensure you both have a good time.

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#4 Discuss intimacy rules

Part of going on a trip together means spending nights in the same room together. There might be an expectation from you or your partner that some intimacy will be involved in the trip, so that needs to be addressed well beforehand. This goes back to #3 when you guys set your boundaries—you should never feel pressured into doing anything you’re not comfortable with.

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#5 Have an exit plan

No matter how solid your plans might be, things could still go wrong at any moment. That’s why it’s important to have an exit plan, just for peace of mind. Look up places nearby where you can book a room for yourself, just in case you have to. Check what the cost of a return flight home would be as well. You’ll feel a lot more comfortable going on an impromptu trip with someone you just started dating, knowing that you can leave at any moment should things turn for the worst.

#6 Go on an adventure

Lastly, don’t forget to have fun! Research your destination and figure out what attractions you’d like to visit. Go pool-hopping, ziplining, ATV riding—whatever your heart desires. These moments are important for building your relationship even further, so make sure you do things that you both want to do.

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